Therapist Reacts to James & Ryann Fight: Ultimatum S2 #15

This article is a summary of the YouTube video ‘Ultimatum S2 #15 – (James & Ryann Fight) – Therapist Reaction’ by Psychology In Seattle

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Reality TV couple’s argument centers around triggers and trauma; therapist advises empathy, communication, and understanding for a healthier relationship.

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  • The video discusses a couple's argument and disagreement shown on a reality TV show.
  • The argument revolves around triggers and trauma experienced by one of the partners.
  • The man gets upset about something, possibly related to hand gestures by the woman.
  • The woman expresses frustration about walking on eggshells and being triggered by her partner's reactions.
  • The therapist in the video discusses the importance of understanding each other's traumas in a relationship.
  • The man's hostility and blaming behavior are critiqued, and the therapist suggests a more empathetic approach.
  • The woman expresses her desire for better communication and to feel understood by her partner.
  • The therapist emphasizes the need for self-soothing and acceptance of potential outcomes.
  • The video also mentions the possibility of non-consensual physical contact between the couple.
  • Overall, the video highlights the challenges and complexities of dealing with trauma and triggers in relationships.

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Transcript

Hey, deserving listeners, The Ultimatum. Let’s watch. I’m wondering if you could double-start the movie as quickly as last year. Oh, I’m pissing you off? Really? I’m pissing you off? Because, like, you’re triggering something inside of me and I’m trying to tell you? Okay, I’m confused. He seems to be upset about something and she’s… I don’t know. Let’s rewind this. Do you want more than one grilled cheese at 1.15 a.m. in the morning? Do you want more than one grilled cheese? She says no. Then he says, don’t start moving your hands quickly slapping shit. Okay, so she’s gesturing with her hands. And we can’t guarantee that this visual is actually coinciding with the audio. I can’t determine if it’s actually synced up. I wouldn’t be surprised if it wasn’t the same scene. Don’t start moving your hands quickly slapping shit. Oh, I’m pissing you off? Really? I’m pissing you off? Because, like, you’re triggering something inside of me and I’m trying to tell you? And then he asks, in a sarcastic way, well, I’m pissing you off? Really? Because, I said something, you’re triggered, you’re triggering something inside of me and I’m trying to tell you? Okay, so, something about our hands? Something inside of me and I’m trying to tell you? How am I supposed to read your mind? I can’t tiptoe around you. Okay. So then we skip forward 15 minutes and it’s a continuation of their fight. So, lots of things were probably said and we don’t know what those were. And then she’s saying that she has to tiptoe around him. And she’s like, because I tapped my nails on the counter, that triggered you? So, yeah, I mean, given what we saw from Ryan and James, we could imagine that there is a dynamic between them where James will get angry and she will have to walk on eggshells. You know, who knows? But we could see that, right? I tapped my nails on the counter, that triggered you? Why won’t you let me talk? Why won’t you let me finish the fucking sentence? Goddamn! Like… Yeah, it’ll be nice finishing my sentence with you there. Okay, then he says, how come you won’t let me finish my sentence? Maybe that’s true. Maybe it’s just one of those Mildred-y kind of things. And then she stonewalls and walks off. Maybe as a way of trying to, you know, take a break so that they won’t fight anymore. Or she’s done with the relationship or she’s done with him. Or, you know, maybe the trial marriage opened up her mind in terms of like, wow, I was used to this walking on eggshells around you. But now, in contrast, I don’t want to live like that anymore. Okay, so he’s demonstrating. He’s saying, I saw this, and it wasn’t hard necessarily. So he’s trying to explain to her what made him angry. This is over a long span of time, so maybe there’s details in there that would be more convincing to us. But the way it looks is that James got upset about nothing. It’s okay, you know, but how do you deliver it, right? You could say like, so what you’re doing with your hands right now, it’s fine, but it triggers me because it gets in my space. And I’m sorry about that, but could you not do that? You know, that’s one way. Another way is by jumping down, you know, someone’s throat and saying, knock it off. Or the first question, like

This article is a summary of the YouTube video ‘Ultimatum S2 #15 – (James & Ryann Fight) – Therapist Reaction’ by Psychology In Seattle